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Ways to Handle the Muck

What do you do when you really couldn't care less to do anything at all--
I'm writing from my hammock and my heart today and know that I am not the only one out there stuck in the muck from time to time. I pulled my computer away from my work desk, because really no work was getting done. A change of scenery and humidity and here I am on the hammock in the back yard. Not the most comfortable place to write...nap yes, laptop no.

As a coach, I'm used to supporting others who are in the muck and helping them create and implement a plan for getting through and out of it and on to a better place in life, work, etc. I know what the great thinkers and motivators and nlp practitioners say. I know what therapists would say, and what spiritual writers, doctors, and even scriptures say. I know many of the traditional and non traditional "prescriptions" for this kind of state.

As a human being, I'm vulnerable to the nothingness of a grey day, to the frustration of procrastination, to getting easily off track and to the deviation of the dreams that normally propel me in to action. Just as often as I give my help and coaching, I need it too.

Havi Brooks, of the Fluent Self discusess 3 of these traditional perscriptions in a blog post called Destuckification 101. At the end she talks about anotherway of "going deeper in to destuckification" that for today works for me and so I wanted to share what she talks about in her blog....she talks about:

About having a conscious, active, intentional relationship with yourself. About what happens when you’re allowed to drop all the shoulds.

Including the ones that say you should be able to push through it. And the ones that say you should be able to sit with it. And the ones that say you should be more grateful.

So that you can give yourself permission to not have to be there yet.

So that you can find out what you need right now. And find ways to give it to yourself. Or at least get better at being eventually ready to receive it.

Interesting I have so much in my mind in the way of all these methods for getting out of this muck. What about being attentive to the muck and what it is saying? It is uncomfortable for me to be in this state...and I'm reminded of the saying....get comfortable being uncomfortable.

Yesterday, my muck terrified me. Today I'm able to be slightly more comfortable with it. I'm finding kindess for myself along the way and staying in that kindess. Cool thing is, I know by tomorrow, that kindess will have filled me up and I'll be ready again, to pour out to those around me.

What do you do when you are stuck in the muck?

And thanks Havi Brooks, for writing in the "REAL"

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And this Comment: 26 Kristina Libby 12.29.08 at 3:02 pm I published a blog in response to your post on our site: biztropolis.ning.com, that will run in a couple of days. But I wanted to thank you, this post was great and my 12 things to stop would be this: If I had to write 12 Things to Stop Doing in 2009, they would be 1.) Stop watching the news 24/7. Nothing has changed since yesterday. 2.) Stop thinking about risky chances and just start taking them. 3.) Stop wanting to be an entrepreneur/small business owner and do it already. 4.) Stop saying you will travel the world. Flights to Europe just got a lot cheaper— anyone for the Azores? 5.) Stop thinking your company will succeed without a social media presence. 6.) Stop thinking that you don’t have to contribute to the discussion. 7.) Stop thinking that the world is going to come to your feet. 8.) Stop thinking you don’t have to work for it because he didn’t have to. 9.) Stop thinking economic recession means you are doomed to failure (see Iceland and geothermal warming). 10.) Stop thinking you don’t have what it takes…. 11.) Stop believing that filling your life with things/meetings/work means you are living a full life. 12.) Stop. Stop reading. Stop doing. Stop wasting time avoiding thinking. Best, K
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